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Post subject: 33 year old woman cyber bullies 7 year old dying girl
Posted: Wed Oct 13, 2010 3:41 pm
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I could not believe this when I read it.
http://www.gather.com/viewArticle.actio ... 4978598829
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Seven-year-old Kathleen Edward knows what it's like to die from Huntington's Disease. Last year, the debilitating disorder, which progressively destroys the mind and control of the body, took her mother's life.
Kathleen has it too.
But the disease is not her only nemesis. Kathleen is also the victim of a horrifying cyberbullying attack and the perpetrator is a 33-year-old neighbor, Jennifer Petkov.
Petkov admitted to WJBK News in Detroit that she had posted ghoulish art work of the child on her Facebook page. The picture showed the Kathleen's face - eyes closed and tongue lolling out - with a pair of crossed bones beneath it.
Petkov also admitted to posting a Photoshopped image of Kathleen's mother cradled by the Grim Reaper.
When asked why she did it, Petkov sounded a lot like a high school mean girl. "Personal satisfaction," she told the station. "Because it rubs their a-s raw."
"Cyberbullying gives people the opportunity to be more aggressive than they would allow themselves to be in person," Dr. Samuelle Klein-Von Reiche, a clinical psychologist in private practice in Manhattan, tells CBS News. "There is a weaker sense of personal responsibility. You don't have to confront someone directly."
Still, there had been plenty of public confrontation in the past. Police said they visited the two homes on several occasions, as the families had been feuding for years.
More recently, neighbors in Trenton, Mich., told the local news station that Petkov and her husband decorated their pickup to look like a hearse, strapped a homemade coffin on top, and drove it back and forth in front of the home Kathleen shares with her father and step mother. Petkov said it was just a Halloween prank.
The origins of the dispute are unclear, but that seems less important than the question of why, and how, a person could be so cruel?
Dr. Klein-Von Reiche, who can't comment on this specific case, says there are several possible explanations for why an adult would bully a child.
"People who believe that cruelty is an acceptable means to channel interpersonal conflict, often suffer from severe narcissism with an antisocial element," she says.
In addition, she adds, we live in a media culture where over-the-top drama, including vicious fighting on reality TV, is pervasive. "For someone who already has questionable judgment," she says, "that only reinforces the idea that extreme mental cruelty is acceptable."
The Edward family now has a restraining order against the Petkovs, and the neighborhood has banded together in support of the little girl. A Facebook group, "We Love You Kathleen," has almost 4,000 members. A toy store in Ann Arbor raised $9,000 for a shopping spree, according to WJBK.
Petkov and her husband have made a public apology and dismantled the coffin on top of the "hearse." Small favors for a girl who faces a disease without cure.
According to the Mayo Clinic, Huntington's is "a progressive, degenerative disease that causes certain nerve cells in your brain to waste away." The result is uncontrolled movements, mental disturbances, and death. Symptoms usually develop in middle age. It is rare for children to show sings of the genetic disorder, but it can progress faster if they do.
I read that a internet group called 4chan is going after these people and while I normally don't condone that type of action, I support it 100% in this case.
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Post subject: Re: 33 year old woman cyber bullies 7 year old dying girl
Posted: Wed Oct 13, 2010 3:55 pm
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My first thought: Is 4chan behind this?
(obviously, it isnt but still)
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Post subject: Re: 33 year old woman cyber bullies 7 year old dying girl
Posted: Wed Oct 13, 2010 3:59 pm
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YBC-Dog wrote:
I read that a internet group called 4chan is going after these people and while I normally don't condone that type of action, I support it 100% in this case.
Dont go there. At all. Under any circumstances. It is more than a group, it is a site where they willingly ruin people lives for lulz. It is the deepest darkest corner of the internet.
I didnt even see this when I posted my above comment. Tormenting a dying girl is right up 4chans alley...
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Post subject: Re: 33 year old woman cyber bullies 7 year old dying girl
Posted: Wed Oct 13, 2010 4:43 pm
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YBC-Dog wrote:
I could not believe this when I read it.
http://www.gather.com/viewArticle.actio ... 4978598829
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Seven-year-old Kathleen Edward knows what it's like to die from Huntington's Disease. Last year, the debilitating disorder, which progressively destroys the mind and control of the body, took her mother's life.
Kathleen has it too.
But the disease is not her only nemesis. Kathleen is also the victim of a horrifying cyberbullying attack and the perpetrator is a 33-year-old neighbor, Jennifer Petkov.
Petkov admitted to WJBK News in Detroit that she had posted ghoulish art work of the child on her Facebook page. The picture showed the Kathleen's face - eyes closed and tongue lolling out - with a pair of crossed bones beneath it.
Petkov also admitted to posting a Photoshopped image of Kathleen's mother cradled by the Grim Reaper.
When asked why she did it, Petkov sounded a lot like a high school mean girl. "Personal satisfaction," she told the station. "Because it rubs their a-s raw."
"Cyberbullying gives people the opportunity to be more aggressive than they would allow themselves to be in person," Dr. Samuelle Klein-Von Reiche, a clinical psychologist in private practice in Manhattan, tells CBS News. "There is a weaker sense of personal responsibility. You don't have to confront someone directly."
Still, there had been plenty of public confrontation in the past. Police said they visited the two homes on several occasions, as the families had been feuding for years.
More recently, neighbors in Trenton, Mich., told the local news station that Petkov and her husband decorated their pickup to look like a hearse, strapped a homemade coffin on top, and drove it back and forth in front of the home Kathleen shares with her father and step mother. Petkov said it was just a Halloween prank.
The origins of the dispute are unclear, but that seems less important than the question of why, and how, a person could be so cruel?
Dr. Klein-Von Reiche, who can't comment on this specific case, says there are several possible explanations for why an adult would bully a child.
"People who believe that cruelty is an acceptable means to channel interpersonal conflict, often suffer from severe narcissism with an antisocial element," she says.
In addition, she adds, we live in a media culture where over-the-top drama, including vicious fighting on reality TV, is pervasive. "For someone who already has questionable judgment," she says, "that only reinforces the idea that extreme mental cruelty is acceptable."
The Edward family now has a restraining order against the Petkovs, and the neighborhood has banded together in support of the little girl. A Facebook group, "We Love You Kathleen," has almost 4,000 members. A toy store in Ann Arbor raised $9,000 for a shopping spree, according to WJBK.
Petkov and her husband have made a public apology and dismantled the coffin on top of the "hearse." Small favors for a girl who faces a disease without cure.
According to the Mayo Clinic, Huntington's is "a progressive, degenerative disease that causes certain nerve cells in your brain to waste away." The result is uncontrolled movements, mental disturbances, and death. Symptoms usually develop in middle age. It is rare for children to show sings of the genetic disorder, but it can progress faster if they do.
I read that a internet group called 4chan is going after these people and while I normally don't condone that type of action, I support it 100% in this case.
Wow- there are some really unbalanced people out there. She did this just for "personal satisfaction"? What in the hell is wrong with people nowdays?
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Post subject: Re: 33 year old woman cyber bullies 7 year old dying girl
Posted: Wed Oct 13, 2010 4:55 pm
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Justin wrote:
YBC-Dog wrote:
I read that a internet group called 4chan is going after these people and while I normally don't condone that type of action, I support it 100% in this case.
Dont go there. At all. Under any circumstances. It is more than a group, it is a site where they willingly ruin people lives for lulz. It is the deepest darkest corner of the internet.
I didnt even see this when I posted my above comment. Tormenting a dying girl is right up 4chans alley...
Actually 4chan are the ones who are going after the family that tormented the dying girl. They are doing the lords work as far as I am concerned.
EDIT: Not to say anything else they do isn't awful, I have never heard of them.
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Post subject: Re: 33 year old woman cyber bullies 7 year old dying girl
Posted: Wed Oct 13, 2010 5:01 pm
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Classy. This is exactly the kind of person Hell is for.
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Post subject: Re: 33 year old woman cyber bullies 7 year old dying girl
Posted: Wed Oct 13, 2010 6:11 pm
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Justin wrote:
YBC-Dog wrote:
I read that a internet group called 4chan is going after these people and while I normally don't condone that type of action, I support it 100% in this case.
Dont go there. At all. Under any circumstances. It is more than a group, it is a site where they willingly ruin people lives for lulz. It is the deepest darkest corner of the internet.
I didnt even see this when I posted my above comment. Tormenting a dying girl is right up 4chans alley...
Now I have to.
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Post subject: Re: 33 year old woman cyber bullies 7 year old dying girl
Posted: Wed Oct 13, 2010 6:49 pm
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As a side note, I have been there, but would never post there. Whatever you do, make sure you dont go on that site on a work computer...
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Post subject: Re: 33 year old woman cyber bullies 7 year old dying girl
Posted: Thu Oct 14, 2010 2:44 pm
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That woman is a piece of shit.
As for 4chan, they are rude immature people but they have done some hilarious things.
http://musicmachinery.com/2009/04/15/in ... sion-hack/
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Post subject: Re: 33 year old woman cyber bullies 7 year old dying girl
Posted: Thu Oct 14, 2010 3:13 pm
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Prosopis wrote:
Justin wrote:
YBC-Dog wrote:
I read that a internet group called 4chan is going after these people and while I normally don't condone that type of action, I support it 100% in this case.
Dont go there. At all. Under any circumstances. It is more than a group, it is a site where they willingly ruin people lives for lulz. It is the deepest darkest corner of the internet.
I didnt even see this when I posted my above comment. Tormenting a dying girl is right up 4chans alley...
Now I have to.
Listen to Justin. They really do ruin peoples lives just because they can. That place is just...awful. Seriously.
I don't even get how that site wasn't taken down years ago.
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Post subject: Re: 33 year old woman cyber bullies 7 year old dying girl
Posted: Mon Feb 14, 2011 12:02 pm
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http://sports.espn.go.com/espn/news/story?id=6120346
A good ending to a bullying story...
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I keep thinking about why I cried that day. I think it's that when the biggest and fiercest and most famous of us takes time to stand up for the smallest of us, it makes me proud to be a sportswriter, proud to cover these athletes, these men.
But I'm prouder still when a young, poor boy like this stands up with no idea any help is coming.
(Oh, and a note to the wolf pack: If you think Eagles players shouldn't be messed with, wait until you meet the Marines.)
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